Words from My Father: Obama and Generations

Last night I was at the Obama rally, and I managed to make a cell phone call through to my father, whom I wanted to make sure was watching tonight.  

He said he'd watch, but he was more concerned with making plans for his birthday in a couple weeks (I've been a bad son and forgotten his birthday on occasion... it's the day after Flag Day, how could I forget?).  I'm afraid I couldn't really talk to him seriously on the issue, since the crowd was loud and reception wasn't great.

When I got home, I found the following letter in my e-mail box; I thought I'd share some of it with you.

I have to stand back a bit and take in what just happened. I was born during Jim Crow; grew up without any real contact with folks who didn't look and sound and act and worship like me; and had the floor dropped out from under my hopes by the assassinations of John, Martin and Bobbie; and saw the idealism of my generation crushed under the love of money and power and me-first.

And tonight, the decision as to who will be the next American
president came down to the last day of the primary season; and the last two candidates were a woman and a black man.

I haven't taken it all fully on-board yet. I've been focusing on the small-picture, the primary race for a long time now; and only now does it begin to sink in how much the world can change, in a positive way, if the folks with the good hearts and the good ideas are also smart politicians.

It just may be that this candidate will continue to find a way to be great and good, and tough and tough-minded at the same time. Imagine what could happen to our nation's economy and education system, health care and justice system--not to mention our ability to bring folks like the Palestinians and Israelis together to finally quit the silly, stupid, criminal fighting shit and make a pair of nations that would be the envy of the entire Middle East.

What a night. What a ride. What prayers of mine were answered tonight.

Love,

Dad

Let's remember: as much crap as gets slung on generational issues during this primary (and will be in the coming general), the moment we witnessed yesterday was the cumulation of the life's work of millions of Baby Boomers and those even older who stood up when they were told to step down, who saw themselves as defined by identity politics and realized how wrong that was.

We've still got a lot of work to do, all of us, together, but I think we're up to it.



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Re: Words from My Father: Obama and Generations (2.00 / 5)

Thank you for the diary. It's a monumental day that I think will take some time to sink in. Like I said elsewhere, I am very, very proud to be a Democrat but more importantly to be an American today.


"If we can't live together... we're going to die alone."
by VAAlex on Wed Jun 04, 2008 at 12:24:29 PM EST

Re: Words from My Father: Obama and Generations (2.00 / 4)

I have a sense I am of your fathers age and he expresse my feeling quite well. Thanks for posting.


Faced with the choice between changing one's mind and proving that there is no need to do so, almost everyone gets busy on the proof.
by jsfox on Wed Jun 04, 2008 at 12:32:13 PM EST

Dad (2.00 / 1)

He'll be 60 in a week and a half.

He's among the Hippy Boomers that never lost their spirit of community service; he's never been a wealthy man, but he's always been generous with his time and his works.


In this avalanche, the pebbles get to vote.
by Dracomicron on Wed Jun 04, 2008 at 12:43:47 PM EST
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Re: Dad (2.00 / 1)

As much as I am trying to deny it, 60 in 2 months. (ugh)


Faced with the choice between changing one's mind and proving that there is no need to do so, almost everyone gets busy on the proof.
by jsfox on Wed Jun 04, 2008 at 01:16:31 PM EST
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Re: Dad (none / 0)

You've lived to witness some of the most significant events in American history.

Nothing to be ashamed of there. :)


In this avalanche, the pebbles get to vote.
by Dracomicron on Wed Jun 04, 2008 at 01:26:45 PM EST
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Re: Words from My Father: Obama and Generations (2.00 / 3)

I have been excited for quite some time, knowing that no matter who won the primary we were going to be making huge strides.

Do you remember how they used to say that America was the country where anyone could grow up to be the President?  Well, as a 40 something female, I knew they meant that any little boy could grow up to be president and I am sure that many minority communities knew that it was any white boy...but you know what, that is not true any more.  ANYONE can grow up to be the President.  This is America and the possibilities are endless.

I feel so proud of of America and Americans today.


accepting McLettuce is like being 9 years old and forced to eat your own cooking
by Sychotic1 on Wed Jun 04, 2008 at 12:35:54 PM EST

I do remember that (2.00 / 3)

The caveat was that "Well, it's never happened yet, but..."

Well, it's happening.


In this avalanche, the pebbles get to vote.
by Dracomicron on Wed Jun 04, 2008 at 12:44:46 PM EST
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When you really... (2.00 / 3)

sit down to think about it, it is truly amazing.  

So much of this race was boiled down to race and gender, while completely missing the big picture.  We had a woman and an African American run as viable candidates.  I mean I was expecting one or the other...some time--but at the same time?  And for both to do as well as they did?    

It goes to show that hearts and minds aren't changed over night, but if you fight long and hard enough, it will happen.

This is America.  This is the country I love.


John McCain smells like mothballs.
by asherrem on Wed Jun 04, 2008 at 12:46:40 PM EST


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